THINGS GIRLS HATE ABOUT GUYS....

The first and most important thing to keep in mind is that No Girl likes to be ignored. If anyone is planning to live their entire life with a girl, you better master the art of making us feel special and important. We hate it when guys ignore us. It’s not like we want anyone to leave their work and run behind us, but even if they do have an important meeting, we likes it if you tell us politely that they have to rush at the moment but will spend some time the moment the work is done. However this does not in any way justify the time they ignore us to enjoy sports, movies, especially IPL all the time.

We hate a Spineless Guy – They need to take the lead and have control over their lives. We don’t hate jobless guys; we hate guys who don’t have the will to work. In case if they are hunting for a job and struggling to make their mark in the concerned profession or they are planning to start up a business and for that you need to quit, be sure we will stand by them, but if they are going to wallow in self-pity and make absolutely no efforts to pull up there socks and make a living, then you can stop dreaming of having any girl beside you.

Equally important Thing besides respecting themselves is that the guys need to respect the girls as well. We hate it when guys lack respect for us – be it our family, our job, our hobby. No girl likes to be ridiculed about her work, career, her friends. We like guys who know how to respect us, because of the simple principle "If he can’t respect me, he can’t love me".

Family bashing is never tolerated. None of us likes a man who disrespects our family and parents, even if we had many times babbled lot of things related disagreements with our parents then to we could never tolerate anyone disrespecting our family.

We hate it when we are taken for granted. Although every individual now a days independent and self sufficient enough to take decisions, there are many incidents were we expect our opinions and decision should also be counted in.

Deceit is another issue that we hate. We hate it when anyone lie to us and let me warn that excuses really don’t matter. Get real and be honest to us

Generally, none of us likes an ill-mannered guy. Hygiene is an issue that we are very sensitive about. We hate guys who dig their noses or fart, burp. A man without basic sense of hygiene and etiquette is an absolute no-no.

One of the most important things that we hate is Gyan session, especially when we are in sad or angry mood. Everyone should understand that we only like someone to listen to things when we had pathetic day in office or had an fight etc etc, we expect the listener should either listen quietly and divert the subject after narration, but in these scenerios most of the guys tend to give an gyan session, it is a strict no no, when we need it we will ask for it.

So, there we go. I have listed things which in my opinion is things girls hate about guys,

What we need is love and not judgement. We need Pampering and not smothering, we need respect and not anyone being our pet, Give us enough time and space, make an genuine effort to understand us, treat us right and we will be Yours Forever.

In My Memory.....

When I Started Turning Pages of My Life, When the feeling of restlessness haunted me all through....

Memories of past where remembered and suddenly all desperation and restlessness was replaced by the feeling of content & happiness.

The seeds of which were sown by the emotional bond between two people in love.....

Now the memories have taken over, for i know tomorrow someone more deserving will enter your life, for today i am long gone....

But memories no one can take that away from me...

I can live through life with those memories, will be cherished in my heart.

It is with all my heart hoping you carry my smile along, for all we meant to each other, for all the unforgivable moments shared.... Always remember that no matter how far i am gone, you will always be with me,

In those memories that give me strength to go on......

AND THEY SAY "GIRLS ARE IMPOSSIBLE......"

I realized it is very wrongly assumed that to predict girls reactions is impossible....

No.... Nop..... its not only girls, but to predict boys reaction is utterly impossible.... And you will know why after reading this.

Boy has a hard day, all frustrated,down with an headache, sounds quite. Same is the condition of the girl, she too is feeling sick and lonely. Boy Calls up, listening his voice it was obvious he had an hard day, just to cheer him up she starts with small casual talks, days happening and insists him on having a bit dinner before going to sleep. Suddenly there's some small question she asks him, boy overreacts and they both hang up.

Girl is quite angry on herself, she shouldn't have asked him the question, although the boy over reacted she understood anyone in that state of mood was obviously going to react the way he did. So she decides to do something special to cheer him up. She writes an poem which goes like this.

"Jane kiski talash unki ankho me thi, arzoo ke musafir bhatkte rahe.
Jitne bhi wo chale, khawb manzil thi aur manzil khawb thi.
Rasto se nikle raste jane kis waste arzoo ke musafir bhatkte rahe.

Koi purani yaad rasta rok kehti he aao us lamhe ki baat karte he
Jisme kabhi phool khile the, ankho se moti barste the aur pyar ke suhane pal sajaye the.

Sach toh ye he ki arzoo ke musafir bhatkte rahe,
In lamho ko yaad kar apne raste khud banate rahe.
Sach toh ye he jitni bhi dur manzil ho,
arzoo ke musafir bhatkte rahe aur unhi rasto me apni zindagi khusi se jeete rahe."

Guess what was the reply for this poem......



Any Guesses???????????????????????????




It goes like this------ "Good Night... Love You..."
That's it.... That's it

AND THEY SAY, "GIRLS ARE IMPOSSIBLE"
NOW I SAY, "BOYS ARE PATHETICALLY IMPOSSIBLE"

ISN'T IT GIRLS?

MISSING MOMENTS...

Is it so hard not to miss someone's presence even after the person is far away from you for around Two Months now? The question pops in all the time... it did yesterday night also...

They say 'Time is the Best Healer'. i believed the same, when he was preparing to go far distance for the sake of his career, i had to believe that i will miss his presence probably for a month's time, we are all practical enough to move on with the little adjustments in life...

Every day you go to office from 9.00 am to 6.00 pm, office work is filled with pending activities which you have to complete within the deadlines, in such tensed environment you take some time out to plan the things which will be done after office hours. Dot 6.19 pm i used to try my level best to wrap things up because i knew someone is waiting for me downstairs with a smile on his face, which will make you feel like home. I miss that

Its known truth that girls are mad about shopping, you go to shopping look around the whole shop spending hours there, finding difficulties in choosing from the varieties, mostly boys rarely show interest in shopping, but he will always insist on trying new kind of clothes may it be traditional or western wear and then when you show two or three dress which you liked and want him to choose one... his reaction why choose one buy them all... you are more than happy to hear these words. I miss that

Its every girl's dream to have a fantasy dinner served as if you are princess, cooked by your boyfriend. Frequently my dream was fulfilled, seeing him cook the dinner, serving with perfection, eating together merrily, him waiting for an compliment from me, i deliberately not making any comment on the food till the end at last giving him a smile and simply uttering two words 'Thank You' then seeing his eyes go bright with the feeling of both proudness and love.
I miss that

You have an hard day at office, you also had an argument with your parents, your best friend is to busy to talk and you feel completely dejected and low. Then you see him coming, he sees your face at that very moment there is a realization that something is wrong, he just comes and sits besides you, you curl you arms around his arms and get it tucked and lean on his shoulders, there is an soft comforting kiss on your forehead which is enough to make you forget all the troubles in life. I miss that

It is a lazy Sunday, you finish cooking a perfect lunch, both had it in one plate, feeding each other. You finish playing scramble and sit to have some conversation with your friends around and suddenly you realize that his head is relaxed on your laps and your hands are tending his hair and he falls quietly in sleep after a while, there is nothing more satisfying for a girl then seeing her loved one sleeping peacefully. I miss that

Quite Walks on lonely road in lovely night, remembering to order ice creams after every dinner out even without demanding, watching movies every Sunday with popcorn in my one hand, Pepsi in his one hand and holding each others other hand, blushing when you feel that he is looking at you from corner of his eyes, deliberately pretend to be angry because you know he won't let your anger to pertain even for 5 Min's by sweet talk(plss...plss....plss na, i love you na... are his patent words) and making innocent face,the pleasant shock you feel when you are busy cooking in kitchen & you here an Whisper 'I Love You' in your ears from behind.

How can you not miss those moments, when you daily move around in the same place where you have once lived those moments.......

GIRL IN LOVE....

While talking to my boyfriend yesterday, this subject "Girl in Love" clicked into my mind, there was lot of ambiguity flowing into my mind, these days i have decided to analyze myself as being a “Girl in Love”

I would like to share some of my experience in this regard.

Girl in Love...

My life before falling in love was encircled round my family lots of friends and there problems, reading, watching TV, surfing, writing stories and endless of other things. I still compare the amount of calls I use to make and receive from my friends was on and average 6-10 calls daily. I was all updated regarding happenings in everyone’s life. Now that I look back and see, after falling in Love at Initial stage the time spent with my friends, family started declining; my friend’s problems and talks which use to be priority earlier started becoming annoyance now. At that moment talking to your partner was on priority, it was right to, since that was the stage when you tend to discover each other more deeply. As time passed by your frequency of spending time with your partner starts becoming less, no offence but believe it or not it is human tendency looking for change from your routine lifestyle.

One fine day I wondered how many friends I am in contact with right now, and I realized the number which a year back used to be 15-25 that has gone down to hardly 5-6 people, what a shock.. you suddenly want them all back but the hesitation comes in when you try to make a call, when they had called you earlier you had them ignored and showed no interest in talking to them, now when you call them how will they react. Fear of that stopped me from giving them a call. I am still working on patching up….

I had seen in my college days, how some of my friend who had boyfriends use to behave, all those Nakras, those enquiries, warning there BF not to look around only concentrate on them, spend time with only them, call up all the time blah blah… things which we name as “Typically Girlish” ‘oh my god…’, ‘What this…’ kinds. Wherein at that time I thought whenever I will have an boyfriend I would give him all the freedom and space he requires, we will have an identity as two different individuals respecting and adjusting to each others likes and dislikes and preferences would never ever be a so called ‘annoying girlfriend’.

At start I did adhere to those things, but as time went by when that goody goody phase of Love Life started fading in… I realized my expectation and demands started rising to some extent, even I am becoming the so called “annoying girlfriend’. It happens, it happens to every single girl who is in love at some or some phase of her Love Life.

Why does it happen? Although we are so determined not to be an “Annoying Girlfriend” why do we act like one at some stage?

Maybe it is because difference in thinking of a Girl and Boy, things which are important for a girl ex:- sharing everything, may not necessarily be important for a boy (Most of them lack expressing in words) to some extent yes this might be the reason. But no, the things are always in our hand, as my BF always mentions “ Don’t make me the only person in your life”, he is so right, girls in love tend to make there partner the only person in there life, for them every thing else every one else loose importance, but obvious when girls reach at this stage they are bound to become “Annoying”.

So Girls I have realized as a ‘Girl been in Love For Long Time Now’ I have experience lot of good things which I intend to write in my next blog, but sadly I have also lost some of good things, habits, hobbies, friends in same course of time.

Being in Love doesn’t mean you have to only concentrate your life on person you love, understand other things are also important, laugh which you had with your girl friends whenever you had that typical “girl talk’, now should not be lost in going to watch in an action movie with BF . The personal time you use to spend reading an novel in night, now should not be lost in long hour talks with BF. The listening and solving problems of your friends, now should not be lost in crying over problems in your life to your BF, when you listen to other problems you will realize your problem is so tiny.

Live Life The Way You Use To Live Before Falling In Love Because Remember Your Partner Fell In Love With The Person You Where Before.

GIRLS HEART 2 HEART

Ever Experienced...
Had a long day in office, go to your room, want to spill out each and every happenings of the day to some one and you realize none has patience or time to listen.

Ever Experienced...
You had a great day shopping and you are proud of the things you bought and want to share each and every detail regarding the dress you bought the colour, the cuts, the style and you realize none will have interest in these kind of girls talk.

Ever Experienced...
You just heard some juicy gossip related to your friend and you just can't wait to share it with someone and if you did share it the kind of response you expected the kind of excitement you showed while telling it the listener will never be able to respond in same manner instead they will make you feel what was such a big deal in it.

Ever Experienced...
You just had a talk with your friend who is getting married and she filled you in with the stories of her clothes, jewellery, honeymoon arrangement, future plans, fear, excitement and while having conversation you mind wonders with the images of your own plans, and you can't wait to discuss with your Boy friend and when you do the BF responds only with the expressions like "huhs" or "hhhh" or "okokok" ,the dreams are all shattered.

Ever Experienced...
You are all alone, just completed reading a romantic novel or saw a romantic movie after finishing you call up your boyfriend hoping to have a romantic conversation and when you do the call is answered in a either a sleepy tone or your BF is busy working, the dreams are all shattered.

Ever Experienced...
These small things in your day to day life girls? You must have... every one does.. It is very rare that you will find a girl who does not require any medium to share there small things in life... they either talk to there parents, friends, boyfriend, room-mate etc etc etc.. But i have experienced now a days life as become so busy for every one no one has time or strength left at the end of the day to listen, sharing small happenings of the days, casual talks and others have lost there importance.

So i have decided to use this blog as medium to express different feelings from the Heart of A Girl.